Rediscovering Life's Simple Pleasures: Food, Fiction, and Self-Improvement

A Culinary Journey in Santa Fe, NM

On a family skiing trip to Santa Fe, NM, we found that the real highlight was not the slopes, but rather the culinary delight at the Plaza Cafe located in the historic Plaza of the Governors. This diner, which has been serving guests since 1905, captures the spirit of cozy diners while providing a taste of New Mexican cuisine that is hard to beat. One of the standouts? Their massive breakfast burrito, which can be topped with spicy green or red chili, or both, a local favorite called "Christmas style." Pairing it with their glorious pinto beans took the experience to another level, especially for someone like me who cherishes good beans.

During our second visit, I indulged in the Hatch green chile cheeseburger, which delivered a satisfying kick along with perfectly grilled flavors. As someone who relishes both burgers and breakfast burritos, this spot was truly my gastronomic paradise. Even the sopapillas, typically just a sweet afterthought in many places, stood out with a surprising burst of flavor.

So, if you ever find yourself in the Land of Enchantment, don’t miss prioritizing a meal at the Plaza Cafe — it could very well be the highlight of your visit!

The Unlikely Revival of a Classic Novel

Speaking of highlights, I couldn’t be more excited to see the resurgence of interest in Lonesome Dove, the epic Western novel by Larry McMurtry first published in 1985. This book has been a long-time favorite of mine and I’ve been advocating its significance for over 15 years. It’s a rich narrative that examines male friendship, purpose, and personal regrets against the backdrop of the American West. Thanks to the viral trends on BookTok and Instagram, a new generation of readers is diving into its pages, and it’s heartening to witness so many discovering what I believe is a profound commentary on the human experience.

This renewed exposure is welcome not just because more people are reading it, but because it allows for important conversations about its themes — something that has deeply resonated with me, especially as I named my son Gus after one of its most memorable characters. If you haven’t had the chance to read it, consider this your cue!

Rediscovering The Walk and Its Artistic Vision

On the cinematic front, our family had the opportunity to watch the film The Walk, which chronicled Philippe Petit’s extraordinary tightrope walk between the Twin Towers in 1974. Directed by Robert Zemeckis, the film may not be perfectly executed — from pacing to casting decisions — but it truly shines in its depiction of Petit’s death-defying act. The sequence where he takes his first steps onto the wire is nothing short of breathtaking, so much so that we found ourselves shielding our eyes and gasping in the moment.

This film serves as a powerful reminder that true artistry often requires immense risk, and Petit’s courageous pursuit of his vision is inspiring. It’s art that challenges the ordinary and pushes the boundaries of human capability.

Lessons from Pat Flynn’s Approach to Personal Growth

Stepping away from responsive entertainment, I recently had the privilege of hosting Pat Flynn on my podcast. Besides being a fitness innovator known for his kettlebell expertise, Flynn's book, How to Be Better at Almost Everything, presents a refreshing take on skill development. Rather than adhering strictly to specialization, he advocates for the concept of being a "generalized specialist"—someone who can dabble in multiple disciplines but still master certain areas.

His philosophical approach ties back to the teachings of great minds like Aristotle, showing us that cultivating a range of skills can lead to a more enriched life. The pursuit of self-improvement isn’t just about niche expertise; it’s about embracing versatility and adaptability.

The Importance of Men’s Self-Improvement and Growth

At a time where men are often boxed into specific roles within the spheres of work and life, it’s crucial that we explore avenues for personal growth. Engaging with diverse interests, whether they be culinary, literary, or artistic, can enhance our understanding of self and the world around us. Initiatives that encourage self-improvement relate directly to facilitating deeper relationships, expanding our styles, and embracing healthier lifestyles.

From enjoying a delicious meal at a local diner to reading a renowned novel that reflects our communal yearnings, each experience adds to our narrative and defines our identity. Thus, embracing opportunities for self-betterment should never be viewed simply as a task but as a journey worth undertaking.

Call to Action: A Life Enriched with Passions

As you take these reflections into account, let them serve as an invitation to ignite your own journey of self-discovery. Read that book you’ve been putting off, savor the cuisine that fuels your spirit, or try a new activity that tugs at your interest. Life is too short to simply go through the motions; it’s meant to be lived passionately and fully. What will you do next?